Reward For Children: Why Is It Important And How To Reward Children

People need the motivation to complete tasks perfectly. Children's motivation is hard to come by naturally, and it is even tougher to keep them motivated. And that is why many parents use the best trick called "reward". As parents, we love and, moreover,  it is our responsibility should reward our children for good behavior or for listening to us(parents).

Many parents believe that rewards must be costly. But, trust me, rewards do not have to be costly. You can reward your children in many easy ways.

Here is an interesting article that talks about the importance of rewards and how you can reward your children.

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What Are The Benefits Of Rewarding Your Children?

Parenting is tough, and your responsibilities extend beyond feeding and clothing your children to raising and nurturing them as a good human being. It is important to appreciate and reward children for their good behavior and hard work in order to encourage and motivate them to continue doing so until it becomes a habit.

Early childhood is very important for children since their brain functions are rapidly growing and they are developing good behavior, life, and social skills. Moreover, there are other benefits to rewarding children, as follows:

* It motivates the child to behave positively

* It gives the child the feeling that he or she has earned a reward for their efforts and good manners

* It improves their confidence and self-esteem

* Being appreciated helps them remember what they have learned

* It also helps in the development of a strong parent-child bond

How To Reward Your Children?

It is not always necessary to reward children after they have done something excellent or meaningful. It is important to recognize them simply for putting up the effort and hard work, regardless of whether or not they were successful in achieving their goal. Based on my experience, I have put together a list of easy ideas you may use to reward your child for good behavior and hard work.

1. Spend quality time with your child

The best way to reward your child's good behavior and hard work is by spending some quality time with them. Spending time as a form of reward can also help in the development of a strong parent-child bond.

2. Take your child on a special outing

Most children love going out; it does not matter where they go. It can be a park near your home or a play zone at a mall. If your child consistently performs well, you can reward them with a special outing to their favorite place.

3. Allow your child to socialize with their best friends

When your child enjoys having free time as a reward, allow them to spend time with their best friend if they show an interest. This will help your older children socialize with others.

4. Prepare a meal that your child enjoys

As a reward, you (parents) can prepare your child's favorite meal. Instead of you choosing your child's favorite meal, ask them to choose their favorite meal and prepare it together. Your child will enjoy the feeling of responsibility as a result of this.

5. Give your child useful products as a reward

You could also give your child school supplies or products related to his or her favorite hobby or activity. This will encourage your child to engage in their favorite pastime.

6. Always appreciate the behavior of the child, not the child

Instead of stating your child is "good" or "bad", parents should focus on appreciating their behavior. Be specific about your child's behavior, explaining how and why his or her behavior was good or bad.

7. Prepare a reward chart for your child

Most parents use a reward chart, and it is the best way to appreciate and encourage positive behavior. It helps your child to assess their own behavior. Use smiley faces, signs, or some stickers to reward them for their good behavior on the reward chart. This kind of reward system will help your child evaluate their own behavior on a daily routine basis.

Parenting Tip: Consider The Following Points When Rewarding Your Children

--> Make sure you reward your child right away, rather than waiting 3 to 5 days

--> Do not give expensive products as a reward

--> Do not always rely on materialistic rewards to appreciate your child's good behavior and hard work

--> Limit the number of sweets and candies you give as a reward because it may have an impact on their health

--> Teach your child to say "thank you" when he or she receives a reward

Final Thought

Finally, as parents, you are aware of your child's situation. To avoid your child taking the reward system for granted, just reward him or her when he or she behaves well. Help your children in earning their reward through their own efforts and behavior so that both you(parents) and your child can enjoy the end result.

The above-discussed ideas for rewarding your child are based on my experience, and you can choose what best suits your child's character.