Toddlers go through a lot of changes during their growing and development years, including changes in motor skills, language skills, sensory perceptions, and so on. They thrive on a routine; it gives them comfort to know "What is next in their day?" even though it is not something they enjoy. Most parents of toddlers go with the flow in both personal and professional life, but going with the flow is losing its effectiveness. It might be better if you took a more proactive approach.
I am not talking about planning every minute of the day or the weekend here. We all know that mom works 24 hours a day, but I am talking about allocating tasks over a week's worth of time. This may help you stay energized throughout the day. Actually, we cannot plan a particular routine because it will probably change in a week or even a day. However, having a written-out plan might help you stay focused and reduce the amount of time you spend arguing with your toddler.
If you are a parent who is having trouble setting a daily
routine for their toddler? Then there is no need to battle any longer. This
article will help you how to set a daily routine for your toddler and why it is
so important.
You can also read: Healthy Eating Habits: Why Is It Important And How To Develop Healthy Eating Habits In Toddler's
What Does It Mean To Set A Toddler's Routine?
Setting a daily routine for a toddler involves sticking to a
strict routine that includes wake-up, mealtime, playtime, bedtime, and even naps.
Routines make you feel more organized and they save you from having arguments
and confusion. Routines require some effort to create and maintain. However,
after you have set them up, they will provide you with numerous benefits as a
person and, of course, as a parent.
Why Is It Important To Set A Toddler's Daily Routine?
Setting a daily routine for toddlers is beneficial for
various reasons. Read on to know what are they:
(i) Improve Skills and Responsibility
Having a daily routine helps toddlers develop a sense of responsibility as well as some basic abilities, such as time management. when toddlers are able to complete their daily routine with less supervision or monitoring from their parents, they become more independent.
(ii) Understand Healthy Habits
A daily routine can teach healthy habits such as brushing the
teeth, physical activity, washing hands before and after each meal, and handwashing
after using the bathroom. A daily routine also reduces stress, which is good
for a toddler's immune system when the stress is low.
Why Is It Good For Parents To Set A Daily Routine For Toddlers?
Setting a daily routine takes some effort in general,
especially for toddlers. However, once you have set them up, you will get the
following benefits:
---> When your life becomes busy, a daily
routine can help you stay organized and in control, especially when it comes to
taking care of the family and household chores - which reduces stress.
---> Having a
daily consistent routine makes you feel like you are doing a good job in managing
the family and parenting.
---> Routines
allow your child to complete their daily works more quickly and they are free
to do their other activities.
How Do You Set A Toddler's Daily Routine?
Helping your toddler to follow a daily routine offers
numerous advantages. Setting a daily routine for your child includes planning,
comfort, and of course fun. Parents should put a daily routine into practice.
So that your toddler gets used to their new daily routine and tries to adjust
it to their requirement as they grow older. Here are a few suggestions for
creating a daily routine:
1. Make A Day-to-Day Routine
a. Set A Wake-Up Time
Toddlers are prone to wake up early in the morning. If your
child has a habit of sleeping in, do not try to wake them up early. Allow your
child to decide when they want to wake up. Encourage children to brush their
teeth as soon as they wake up. You can also schedule a time to wash the face and
use the restroom.
b. Make A Breakfast Schedule
you can set a breakfast time based on your toddler's wake-up
time. Sometimes, they may wake up hungry and refuse to cooperate in brushing
their teeth, washing their face, or using the restroom. You can feed your
toddler first during that time, and then they will be more cooperative in doing
basic activities.
Note: Try to keep your child's breakfast very light. It is
always good to keep the breakfast time as short as possible. So that your
toddler has time to play late in the morning.
c. Set A Mid-Morning Routine
Set a mid-morning routine once your child has done with
breakfast. Start with an hour of playtime after breakfast, allowing the child
to play with toys, siblings, or family members.
After an hour of playtime, you can serve fruits, nuts, boiled
pulses, and other mid-morning snacks. After snack, parents spend time with
their children by engaging them in fun activities such as painting, solving
puzzles, and so on.
Note: Keep in mind that depending on your toddler's age, you
should arrange activities and keep him or her occupied.
d. Make A Lunch And Nap Routine
You should stick to a lunchtime routine, ideally between
12:30 pm to 1:00 pm. Set a nap time routine after half an hour of lunch.
Toddlers aged 1-3 years require approximately 11-15 hours of sleep per night.
Depending on your toddler's age, you can
schedule 2 naps per day: one in the
mid-morning and the other 1 in the early afternoon, after lunch. Once the
toddler reaches the age of 18 months, he or she just needs one (1 to 3 hours)
nap each day.
e. Make A Routine For The Evening
Following your toddler's nap, you must plan a few activities
for the evening. This includes a light evening snack and some physical activity
such as walking, cycling, or other forms of exercise, preferably outside if
possible. Doing some physical activity outside will help your toddler burn off
some energy before dinner. This routine makes dinner time and bedtime go much more
smoothly.
f. Set A Time For Dinner
Dinner time is a great time for your child to bond with his
or her family and also learn proper table manners by watching others eat. Parents
should help their children with washing their hands, face, and changing out of any
dirty clothes before 30 minutes of dinner.
g. Create A Bedtime Routine
It is quite tough to get the toddler to sleep. However, if
you stick to a consistent bedtime routine, your child may begin to adapt to going
to bed on time every night. After dinner, you can include some playtime such as
watching cartoons. Before going to bed, you can serve a glass of warm milk in
your routine.
Playing music(Lullaby), reading a bedtime story, or turning
off lights in your toddler's room are the final steps in the nighttime routine.
Allow your toddler to get into bed with his or her favorite toys, or a blanket.
Note: Every night, parents should try to stick to the same
bedtime routine.
Example Of Complete View Of A Toddler's Daily Routine
When you have completed the entire set of a daily routine for
your child, look at it as a whole(i.e.., complete daily routine). The following
is the final look of a summary of the daily routine:
Morning
Routine |
|
8:00 am |
Wake Up Time |
9:00 am |
Breakfast |
10:00 am |
Play Time |
Mid-Morning
Routine |
|
11:00 am |
Mid-Morning Snack |
11:30 am |
Activity Time |
12:30 - 1:00 pm |
Lunch Time |
2:00 pm |
Nap Time |
Evening
Routine |
|
5:00 pm |
Evening Snack |
6:00 pm |
Play Time in Outdoors |
8:00 pm |
Dinner Time |
Bedtime
Routine |
|
9:00 pm |
Play Time |
9:30 pm |
A Glass of Warm Milk |
10:00 pm |
Bed Time |
2. Implementing A Day-to-Day Routine
a. Create A Daily Routine Poster
Parents can make a poster, planner of their toddler's daily
routine and hang it in their room. Actually, if you have more than one toddler,
a poster of a daily routine would be quite helpful because each child may have a
different routine based on their ages and needs. As a result, having posters of
each child can help you in following the toddler's daily routine.
b. Always Be Flexible When Necessary
Though it is important and necessary to maintain a set of daily routines for the child - sometimes you need to be flexible about the daily routine. You can make small changes to their daily routine such as taking your child for a walk instead of playing in the morning if the weather is nice. So have small changes in the toddler's routine whenever is needed. However, you should stick to a few non-adjustable routines such as waking up time, eating time, and bedtime - you can change the activities in between these times if necessary.
c. Include Rewards For Toddlers Who Follow To The Daily Routine
Remember to give enough time in their daily routine for them to have fun, explore, learn, and fully engage with you. Use their favorite activities during playtime as rewards- so that your child will be more interested to follow the daily routine. Similarly, during mealtime prepare their favorite foods and snacks as rewards.
3. Adjusting The Daily Routine Over Time
a. Make Small Changes Of The Daily Routine One At A Time
If you want to change any activities in your toddler's daily
routine, do so gradually and one at a time. If you change numerous habits at
once, your child may become confused.
b. Stick To The Same Routine For At least A Month
One month is sufficient time for a toddler to get used to the
daily routine. Many toddlers try to begin their daily routine on their own
after a month. If there is a change in their daily routines such as family
emergency or vacation plans, you should explain why there is a change and what
are the changes. This will help your toddler to understand the facts.
Final Thought
Routine may not work right away, but with enough effort, you
will get the result you like. Setting a daily routine and practicing it with
toddlers is actually not a big challenge. But the real challenge is that as a
parent, you should take the first step in
creating a daily routine with your child. It is also important that you should
be flexible in your toddler's daily routine whenever is needed. Once you have
set a routine and your toddler is very happy to follow the routine, you will
feel like a "parenting pro".
Happy Parenting...!
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