Marriage Life After Child: What Would Be The Reason To Fight With Your Partner

Arguments and serious conversations are quite common in marriage life especially after the arrival of a baby. When you bring your baby home, yes. now your family becomes whole and complete. This is the moment where your role is not alone as home-maker and wife - actually this is the time all your duties and responsibilities become double like you need to focus on your career growth, partner, baby, household chores, and so on.

Generally, arguments between couples especially after having a baby for many reasons. Here are some reasons which I experienced in my life.

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1. Parenting Ideas May Vary

First-time parents always have a thought to give the best to their baby there it starts the argument. For example, if you select a disposable diaper for the reason baby will get undisturbed sleep and eases your regular diaper duties, but your partner selected a cloth diaper for better hygiene and economy. This argument may look small but when it happens often it will ruin your happy marriage life.

Solution:

Before taking any decision, it is good to have a conversation with your partner and make a decision together which is best for your baby.

2. Postpartum Depression

It is very common that women face a lot of hormonal changes after giving birth and also there will be a routine change in their daily life. Generally, people will get irritated when they do not get enough sleep and rest. Actually, newborn babies require a lot of attention like feeding, bathing, and many other works. So, obviously baby grabs a mom's entire day and sometimes night times too. Before having a baby she finds enough time to spend with her partner and also she can have some time to take care of herself, but after having a baby she could not find a time or be like as before, which makes her angrier and fight unnecessarily with their partner.

Solution:

Actually, there is no perfect solution for postpartum depression but one thing you can do - express your feelings with your partner and ask him to take care of the baby. Am sure, your partner can understand your feeling and help you to relax.

3. Divide the Task Equally

Once the baby comes home there will be a lot of work to take care of your baby as well as household chores many gets irritated at this point only because of their daily routine changes. They obviously feel like their partner is not supporting them in any way.

Solution:

Do not shout or do not build any unnecessary argument with your partner, instead ask your partner to help you with changing nappies, getting the baby to sleep, and doing some household chores. If they do not know any particular work teaches them politely am sure they will learn quickly to help you and make you feel relaxed and less worried.

4. Lack of Intimacy

After childbirth, the baby grabs a mom's complete attention she always thinks about, what to feed once the baby woke up, sterilizing the feeding bottle, and many others. I know always thinking about a baby is quite common but at the same time, you should think about your partner and should spend time with him too. Your partner feels like, he is left alone and this leads to unnecessary arguments and a lot of problems in the relationship.

Solution:

Whenever your baby is sleeping try to spend time with your partner. Recollect all your old memories like before having a baby how you used to spend time and share your feeling which you are experiencing at present. This healthy conversation leads to relieving all your stress and depression.

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5. Financial Planning

After having a baby, monthly expenses will be increased and different. Each month baby's needs will keep on increasing because the baby is growing. So, obviously, in budget planning, there will be some heavy argument.

Solution:

In budget planning, there are many ways to reduce unnecessary expenses. But one thing you should keep in your mind when baby grows their necessary things will keep on adding to your every month list, if it is a necessary thing for your baby's growth and development do not hesitate to spend. On the whole, plan your budget, avoid unnecessary expenses, and spend wisely according to your baby's needs and family.